不變的道理

Finished reading Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom. The followings are the quotes that I connect to and touch my heart.

"I had become too wrapped up in the siren song of my own life. I was busy."

"So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-asleep, even when they're busy doing things they think are important. This is because they're chasing the wrong things. The way you get meaning into your life is to devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning."

"Without love, we are birds with broken wings."

"The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in."

I agree and I also think that the difficult part is to let love come in. To let love come in means that you acknowledge that you deserve this love and you are worthy of love. To come to this acknowledgment, you need to first love yourself and be aware of your very own presence in the world. To me, it means appreciating your own presence in this world, thinking that having someone like you on Earth is a beautiful thing. I remember I came to this acknowledgment a few years ago, after I graduated from UWC. That was a beautiful thing.

這個星期忙於與朋友見面、食飯…(同我食飯要至少提早十日book架，真係好LD)其實真的挺累的…因為食一餐不但個口要狂運動，個腦都要不斷咁process人地講緊d咩同自己想講咩架嘛。anyway…但每一餐飯其實我都好享受的，每一天我也覺得自己很被祝福。當中，很深刻的是CP說的"Love is a decision."

當然，有很多context都可以不是。但…對於對教會的愛，我覺得是一個決定。
有時候，這種愛真的很paradoxical，因為教會也是人的地方，一個不完美的地方，但偏偏因為教會的majority是基督徒的時候，就會讓人有更高的期望，看到不完美的地方，有些人選擇繼續去愛，有些人選擇去尋找一個"比較好"的教會而去愛。

唔知呢，是不是我份人比較重情念舊？是不是我比較感情用事？其實我…真係好想見到每一個都番黎。唔知會唔會有呢日呢？

Love this song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9xthLlCrHYU&feature=related
Went to Tai Po for cycling today. So so so so nice. Thanks very much Vicky and Michael! :-) I really loved the time when I was biking on a flat road by myself feeling the breeze. Tai Po brings back old memories. Sometimes, I wonder how it would be like if you and I are still together. But who knew that I was going to the US and you were going to Prague? And I think the song above actually speaks well for our anticipated ending in my opinion:

我和你手牽手　說要一起走到最後
我們都忘了　這條路走了多久
心中是清楚的有一天
有一天都會停的　讓時間說真話

Biking made me so happy! :-)