There is a friend of mine who used to be my very good friend. Because of some unknown reasons, our relationship has gone distant and our interaction has become awkward. I can't recall how many times I asked myself what made our relationship the way it is today and at the end of the day, I still cannot find the answer. This friend of mine was apparently going through some hardship a few days ago. As usual, I thought I would never come to realize what hardship it was. Accidentally, I got to know some details of this hardship on Facebook and I realized that this must be a very hard time for this friend of mine. There was a sudden urge in me that I wanted to say some encouraging words for comfort to this friend, and I did.
After this, I realized that despite the awkward and distant interaction between that friend and I, I still care about this friend of mine a lot. The urge that I should comfort and be available for this friend came naturally, which showed that I still do value this friend a lot. My heart has always told me that this person is very important to me; and indeed, it is true. As I was writing this blog, I also realized that my heart has been telling me some things about each person I have encountered. These include, whether the relationship will be long-lasting, what kind of person he/she is, how I should treat him/her, etc. And ultimately, I realize that these thoughts are indeed correct. No matter how blinded I was because of the seemingly good environment or the seemingly harsh condition, my inner thoughts have ultimately come true.
And I realize, I should trust my heart again. Using your genuine heart to face people and to treat people is the kindest thing you can do to a person.
And I realize, I should trust my heart again. Using your genuine heart to face people and to treat people is the kindest thing you can do to a person.
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